Unfortunately, however, our culture teaches our singles to engage in multiple dating relationships as though it were a normal and useful practise.The truth is, the modern dating system has only been around for less than a century.And it is my conviction that the wordly system of dating, as it is currently conducted by most people, is far from God's original plan, as described in the Bible.
Let me say first of all: Don’t get hung up on terms.It is possible to use the word date but not necessarily have the same understanding as my definition. If you say you date but don’t do what I define dating as being, then I feel you are practicing courting, although you might still use the term dating. It sounds so much better, but in reality, dating and mating are sometimes the same.My definition of dating is that it is a modern game where intimacy is practiced before commitment. It doesn’t sound good to tell someone you are mating with Mr. I looked up the word date in my encyclopedia and it said, "see Sex and Teenage." Even my encyclopedia agrees with my definition.The rules of courtship are different in all parts of the world.Usually, the man comes courting at the home of the woman he is interested in. The parents are made aware of the interest of the young man, and the two potential lovers are left alone together in a room to socialize only if this is the norm in the community.If we put Him and His law above anything else in our life, then He knows that we will be better equipped to both date and court with great integrity.